Blessings Party. 

Hello Fellow Queen
You’re cordially invited to join us in celebrating our blessings. This blessing party consists of appreciating what we have before us ,there’s no invite for negativity or pity. Let’s leave the self loathing,self doubt,low self esteem at the door. Life’s trials and tribulations test my faith daily , but God’s blessings shine upon me daily and I remain standing with a sense of gratitude , happiness and confidence.When negativity tries to block my path and negative self thoughts try to lay groundwork of insecurities ,I bypass with positive mental attitude ,my self esteem took over and laid a foundation that cannot be penetrated.Lets swing away pity party those days are over ,we are going to Boogie with happiness,whip the Nae-Nae with high self confidence. So come join me and celebrate the new phenomenal woman. Dress code: Class, Dignity ,Strength and Laughs. Sponsored by Faith ,Resilience,Love and absolutely no stress. “A blessing is a circle of light drawn around a person to protect,heal,and strengthen. “

The Great Battle of Self Esteem

The Great Battle of Self Esteem

Hey Divas! So many of us are battling with self esteem issues due to a belief system, society and the media, even because of emotional, physical or sexual abuse. We also deal with academic challenges, negative comments throughout our childhood from family or friends, spousal abuse or a negative work environment. Let’s fight together to overcome this issues by having faith and believing in ourselves. Block all the negative memories and thoughts and learn to compliment and uplift ourselves.

Having a low self esteem can cause us to settle for less because you’ll always feel the need to validate yourself for others. Divas, we are strong and powerful and we will not let nothing get in the way of our diva-vicious ways. Love and accept who we are, accept our
beauty inside and out. Give thanks for our blessings and forgive ourselves when we make mistakes. We must be kind to others without sacrificing our own needs and take responsibility for our lives so that we can love ourselves to the best of our ability!

“Love yourself, forgive yourself, be true to yourself, how
to treat yourself sets the standard for how others will treat you.” ~  Dr. Steve Maraboli

It's Nice To Be Nice

It's Nice To Be Nice



Ladies, whenever you’re not in the mood to be nice, always remember this,”It’s nice to be nice!” ~ Ola Mae Walker

Why should we be kind? It’s simple. You never know who is having a rough day or who may be having a health issue. Just try to be mindful of others. We are all going through various stages of our lives and perhaps not everyone deserves your kindness, especially if they are rude or obnoxious. However, you have the ability to take the high road. So, be nice and hopefully the people who hear your kind words or acts will pay it forward by passing it on to the next person they encounter!

Loyalty, Trust & Love By Abhijit Surve

Loyalty, Trust & Love By Abhijit Surve

We say that love demands a lot from you,
But reality suggests it is not at all true..
Two very simple things in love are a must,
One is devoted loyalty and a faithful trust..

Trust in your love make sure it is deep,
The returns you get is for you to keep..
The stronger the bond its harder to break,
Has to be so when there’s so much at stake..

When in a relation, its trust that you need,
True belief in your love demands your heed..
Once broken to pieces is hardly rebuilt,
At times you have to live with the guilt..

Here loyalty too plays an important role,
Offers a soothing cohort to a longing soul..
Staying with your love in joy and sorrow,
Smiles you give and the tears you borrow..

In a relation, loyalty brings you close,
The faith you show, when beside you pose..
Just one false step of treacherous mind,
Cracks apart relations of every kind..

Sometimes these emotions are put to test,
Puts two hearts in a conflicting unrest..
One reason all problems are easy to shun,
Is trusting the loyalty of your loved one..

A relation in itself is a bond so strong,
Together you face all the right and wrong..
These factors decide how long it stands,
Here loyalty and trust walk hand in hands..
~ Abhijit Surve

Never Settle For Less

Never Settle For Less


My dear friends, you are beautiful and smart. You embody resilience, grace and gratitude. You are independent, loyal and lovable so never apologize for having high standards, because the people who want to be in your life will rise up to meet them. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve, it’s not pride it is self respect!

There is no passion to be found in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” ~ Nelson Mandela

As I Began to Love Myself by Charlie Chaplin

As I Began to Love Myself by Charlie Chaplin


As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody
As I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time
was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT”.

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “MATURITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”.

As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”.

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for
my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”.

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worry
about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”.

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But As I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART”.

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know THAT IS “LIFE”!
By Charlie Chaplin